The Power of Collaborating!

 



The Power of Collaborating!

When the husband of one of my UCLA group of friends became very ill last summer, it was suggested that we form a prayer chain. Although the eight of us ladies were spread out from east coast to west, the prayer chain united us as we interceded for Jeanne and her husband, Paul.

Without fail, at least one person in the group would text a prayer, scripture or words of encouragement for Jeanne, Paul’s primary care-giver. Sent to the entire group, those daily texts always jogged my memory and helped me to consistently pray for them. Often Al and I prayed together, because he too had known the couple for many years and had become closer to Paul when our entire group, spouses included, met in Palm Springs last May for a long-awaited reunion.

The commitment to daily prayer continued until the beginning of October, when Paul quietly slipped away. The bonds we formed in the 70’s at college grew stronger, even though later we each went our own way, and moved to various parts of the country.

 Jeanne and Paul were steadfast in their faith even in the midst of their trial. Often, Jeanne would text a verse or insight from the Bible that had comforted her that day. She was always full of gratitude for the blessing of a long and happy marriage with Paul.

During those months, not only were the two of them uplifted and supported, my faith was strengthened as well. The others in the group also provided encouragement through their texts and prayers. Even though the answer to our prayer for Paul was not what we had hoped for, in the end, there was the peace of knowing that Paul was with God in Heaven and that God would take care of Jeanne.

 As she shared in a recent email: “That prayer chain meant so much to me in the dark lonely days during Paul's illness and after his death. I think Paul would agree that it sustained us both, even now.”

Rather than ending in October, the commitment to pray for Jeanne and for each other has continued, providing support and stimulating spiritual growth. This kind of collaboration was pictured in a different way by a musician in the Detroit Symphony Orchestra who plays the double bass.

 He, Stephen Molina, described the bass as a supportive instrument, one which seldom plays the melody but usually harmonizes with the other instruments. It is an important role, because even though soloists draw most of the attention, the musicians rely on and learn from each other. The result of their collaboration is an amazing symphony orchestra whose audiences are inspired by its performances.

So it is with friends supporting each other in a time of need. Remember the paralytic whose four friends carried him on a stretcher and lowered him through the roof of a house so that he could get help from Jesus?  Perhaps they had been steadfastly praying for him and were determined to take him to Jesus one way or another.

The result was amazing! Jesus stopped talking to the people who had crowded into the home, perhaps reaching up to support the stretcher as it dropped to the ground. How did the man lying on the stretcher feel? Scared? Humiliated? Hopeful? Convicted of his sins, when face to face with Jesus?

The sin issue was what Jesus addressed first, surprising him as well as his friends…and angering the religious leaders in attendance. But then, he heard these inspiring words… “I tell you, get up, take your mat and go home...” * and the paralytic man was healed!

 There is power in collaborating, relying on each other, working and praying together!

As followers of Jesus, may we walk into the new year with the commitment to do just that! Happy New Year!

Two portions of scripture that have become Jeanne’s favorites are:

“Count it all joy when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.  And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”  (James 1: 2-4 ESV)  

 

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.  And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7 ESV) 

*Luke 5: 24b NIV 

Pictured above: Al (on right) with Paul in Joshua Tree National Park.



(The UCLA 'girls' and husbands, May 2025 at top of tram in Palm Springs)


 

 

 

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