Slow Down, Please

 


 As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him.  She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said.  But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made…” *

            Last Saturday, the annual Dream Cruise was held on Woodward Avenue. Now that it is over, traffic has decreased as well as the number of speedsters going along our road, which connects Woodward Avenue with another main thoroughfare.

The Dream Cruise was started in 1995 by a group of people wanting to raise money to build a soccer field in their community. The route chosen was a sixteen-mile loop on Woodward Avenue. It was such a hit and drew so many people that it quickly became a tradition.

 Although it only officially lasted from 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. on the third Saturday of August, spectators began arriving early in the week, setting up chairs and canopies along Woodward. Collectors of specialty cars came from all over the world to display their vehicles—every kind imaginable, including vintage cars, Chevys, muscle cars, and sleek new models, some not even on the market yet.

 As you can guess, the sound was deafening, easily heard from our house, although we are a few miles away from Woodward Ave. The cruisers didn’t just stay on the route—they cruised all over town. Many of them passed in front of our house, ignoring the posted 25 mph speed limit and revving their engines! Although a speed bump was recently installed down the street, it became a challenge for some drivers to see how fast they could accelerate once over the bump to the next stop sign!

Speeding is a good way to describe my pace through life, although my driving isn’t as fast as it used to be! Instead of slowing down after retiring from thirty-three years of teaching, I was hired to work with the children at our church in Porterville, California. It was especially hectic on the night that our “Kids for Christ” group was held, trying to get things ready before the children arrived.

My sweet helper who volunteered each week, became very distressed one afternoon while trying to get my attention. I hurried away from her in a rush, leaving her behind wondering what to do next.  Later that evening, after the program was over, I finally realized how hurt she was and apologized.

Unfortunately, there were other relationships that suffered, due to my being just too busy to stop and listen. Over a long period of time though, there has been a shift in my priorities, so that now I value the interactions I have with people. The story of Mary and her sister Martha in the above verses is a good reminder of that.

Jesus and His disciples were coming to their house for dinner. Although it doesn’t say what was happening in the hours or days before this special guest arrived, I can guess that Martha was running around the house trying to get things ready. Her worst fears were realized when Jesus and His men arrived before all of the preparations were finished! When Mary stopped what she was doing to sit down at His feet, giving Him her full attention, Martha became upset.

 She came to him and asked, ‘Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!’” (Luke 10:40b NIV) It is easy to understand her frustration  when things just didn’t work out the way she had planned.

Jesus’ response?  “‘Martha, Martha,’ the Lord answered, ‘you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.’”  (Luke 10: 41 NIV)

Uh oh! The speed bump! Jesus wanted Martha to stop and experience the peace that only He could give. My advice to Martha, learned the hard way: “Sit down Martha! Stop running around! Whatever you serve will be good, but just take advantage of Jesus’s company while you can!”

Why wait for a speed bump? Why not make room in our busy lives for spending time with others, and most importantly with the Lord every day?

Good advice for myself and for each of us, don’t you think?

 (*Luke 10:38-40a NIV)






 

 

 

 

 

 

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